"Lies run sprints, truth runs marathons"The worst thing to find out is a lie. Especially when the lie involves you and was told by someone you truly care about. I'm not talking about a "you look great today!" lie when you really look terrible, I'm talking about a lie that destroys other peoples' feelings. A lie that shows someone truly doesn't care anymore. What I honestly don't understand is why people lie to make themselves look better. I think everyone has done this at some point in their life, but when it comes down to someone you love, it's just not a good idea.
Everyone knows that people have ways to find out things about him. I promise you, if you lie to someone, someone, at some point, WILL find out about that lie. Someone will get the truth out sometime and the trust between the people is completely broken. The sprint is over.
The truth, however, can shine through anything. Even if something bad happened, I think the right thing to do is tell the truth. In the long run, it'll be more worth it to have told the truth out front in the beginning, then to lie and cause more turmoil. If you're trying to save a relationship, just tell the truth. More trust will be formed that way.