"The couple that fights the most is the one most in love"

This quote annoys me. If you're in a relationship, you probably know that the worst part of that relationship is getting into fights. When all you're trying to do is be happy, and have a nice time, a fight always seems to pop up and ruin your plans. I used to believe this quote for a long time, but now I just think it's a total lie. To me, the whole point of being in a relationship with someone is to be happy. They're supposed to make you happy and vice versa. If more time is spent mad/upset with each other than happy, I don't see the point in being in the relationship anymore. The other person in the relationship obviously isn't doing their job.

I've basically seen this happening throughout a relationship of two people that I'm friends with. At the beginning of their relationship, everything was smooth sailing. They were both content with everything. As the relationship progressed, they started fighting more and more, and never got out of that funk. They continuously fight when it's just them, and it seems like they're never happy anymore.

Showing that you can overcome a few big fights may prove that you're a strong couple, and you're the "most in love", but if they're happening every single day, something isn't right. If more of your time in the relationship is spent worrying about fighting instead of actually letting loose and being happy, give it up. It'll be for the better. You aren't really in love, and things will steadily get worse.